Thursday, January 31, 2008

Lost a good friend

I lost a good friend today. He died of a heart attack in his sleep. According to his family, he complained of chest pain earlier but did not seek medical treatment. He worked long hours and smoked heavily.

I was so utterly shocked when I heard the news. Only last weekend I had just smsed him wishing him a happy birthday as he turned 52 and he had called me to thank me. Every since i heard the news i have been so upset. And now I have just returned from his home after having paid him my last respect.

I have only known him for about 2 years and in that span of time I have experienced so wonderful memories and encountered new exposures in life. I will always be thankful for that.

This just goes to show how fragile life is and we may not open of eyes no to see the next day. Life should be cherished and valued. It is also important to be surrounded by loved ones.

May his soul rest in peace.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Publication in Tamil

A blogger left a comment asking whether I am aware of any publications in Tamil on breast cancer. I do not know of any so, with a with a quick search I came across these websites:

http://www.koodal.com/health/interview_guide.asp?id=390&title=breast-cancer

http://anuratha.blogspot.com/

http://www.cancerinfoindia.org/index.html

http://www.kkh.com.sg/BreastTalk/theatre.htm

http://sbcf.blogspot.com/2007/10/drkshantha-breast-cancer-foundation.html


Well Ram, I hope the above will be of some help and wishing your sister -in- law a speedy recovery.









Thursday, January 17, 2008

Abnormality

I have been experiencing discomfort on my right breast for the last 2 months. As my visit to the radiologist was coming up I thought I might as wait till then. Even when I was on my company’s trip to Langkawi I was really uncomfortable. Because I am just sick and tired of going to see the doctor as it can be nerve-wracking expedition, I just want to wait for the appointment date.

So last week I had my mammography done followed by ultrasound. The radiologist found the calcification that was 6 months ago on my right breast. After much thought she decided that she wanted a biopsy done just to be sure about the fluid filled abnormality.

So on 4th of February I will get the biopsy done. I asked the radiologist and she said it is not a worrying condition but she just wanted to make sure. Yestersday was my appointment in the Breast Clinic. They would have to wait for the biopsy to be done before proceeding further.

This year started with lots of issues on my mind including the health condition, I have no choice to cheer up and see how best to deal with them

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Family Celebrations

The last weekend of 2007 and the first weekend of 2008 were filled with gaiety, family bonding and celebrations.

Just before the year ended my cousin sisters from America threw a surprise bash for their parents on the occasion of my aunt and uncle’s 40th wedding anniversary is style at the Carcosa Seri Negara, a midst a colonial landscape. Joining merriment were family members and very close friends.

My cousin sisters and their families produced a book capturing the significant journey of their parents from India, subsequent marriage in Kuala Lumpur, their travels and their final home in Washington. It was really great to see black and white photos of yonder years…the growing up years… up to present moment. It brought back memories… I, of course looked very slim…so many years ago…ah…ah! Lots of thought and effort must have been put in by all of them in producing the book and the end product was simple breathtaking.

My cousin’s eldest 8 year old son gave a welcoming speech for his grandparents which he proudly wrote himself, portraying images of young blood in the family trees.

It was really great of my cousin sisters to celebrate this joyous occasion, as my motto is all occasions must be celebrated in a big or small scale, family moments with young and old must be cherished.

The second function was spent in Singapore. My granduncle celebrated his 80th birthday or Sathabhishekam. My family including my brothers and their families joined this grand gala. My granduncle and grandaunt have in fact seen their 3rd generation as they now have 2 great grand children, besides 6 grandchildren. So there were immediate families, extended families, distant relatives, friends, about 600 people gracing this religious celebration in the Sri Thendayuthapani Temple in Singapore with traditional pomp and flair.

The function consisted of two parts, which on the Saturday night, a pooja (prayer) was held and on Sunday morning there was a wedding ceremony where my granduncle and grandaunt renewed their matrimonial vows. Both bride and bridegroom, looked energetic, radiant and had an air of accomplishment. Yap! It not every other day people get a chance to celebrate their 80th birthday and renew their marriage vows at that age…it was a wonderful sight to watch and to record in our memories.

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Pictures from Medan Trip

Finally i had to time to post some pictures i took at Medan & Lake Toba. One of my new year's resolution is to become more activite at blogging...ha..ha!Here are the pictures.


I was amazed to see a moden Shopping Complex at Medan




The only 4 of us from the club at the convention's Ulos Nite



Parames, Gina,Chuan , Me & Ratnam



Guests and organisation committee at the Ulos Nihe






Ladies Performing at the Award Ceremony




Cultural Performance




Gina & Me at the Award Ceremony




Entrance to the Ambarita Historical Site




Village of Tomok-Small square line with Batak houses




Ambarita Historic Site-An ancinet village council




Tomb-King's Coffin-The sarcophagus contains the body of Raja Sidabutar, the chief of the first tribe to migrate to the area




Wooden Carving




View of Lake Toba




View of lake Toba




Me at the Niaga International Hotel



Flower Signboards which are used every where as a notice board











Monday, December 31, 2007

My company's trip to Langkawi

My celebrations and traveling reached a climax for this year when my company organized a trip for staff and families to Langkawi Island. We had gone on a company trip earlier to the same island when I had just joined the company some years ago. After many years I am amazed to see the rapid development in Langkawi.

The archipelago of Langkawi contains 100 over islands and is sanctuary to some of the most ancient rainforests in the world, including exotic flora and fauna. Langkawi Island itself is the largest among the archipelago, is the only one with any real settlement. It fringed by lovely beaches scattered along its coast. The island is still very much a rural landscape with villages and paddy fields.

My company’s entourage to Langkawi comprised of 31 adults and 18 children which included babies as young as 3 months old to a year old. Wow! I really take my hat off to my colleagues who are adventurous enough to bring their babies along.

We started the journey at about 11pm on Friday late night on two coaches. Since it was already bed time for some of us, we were half awake through the journey. After several stops, the bus I was in reached Kuala Perlis at bout 6 am on Saturday.

Day 1

Started very early as we had reached Kuala Perlis at the wee hours of the morning and had to wait for the Langkawi Ferry Service to bring us across the Island with it operations only starting at 6.30am.

I was very uneasy as I was already tired from trying to get sleep from a bus seat on a long night journey. I was however amazed to see my colleagues’ young children as they were so energetic. Oh! Sometimes…I wish … I could be as energetic as them. The ferry ride took us about 45 minutes and immediately upon landing on the island we were taken to the Langkasuka Beach Resort.

We were all so hungry when we reached the hotel and we could only check into our hotel rooms after 2 pm. We immediately dropped off our bags at the lobby and went to have the hotel's breakfast buffet. I kept on telling everyone that this is the first time in my life that I have not brushed my teeth to have breakfast. The others did not seem to fuss about it… may be they are a more seasoned traveler than I am or just less fussy…ha…ha!

After breakfast and since we did not have rooms to rest yet, we started our excitement in Langkawi by first visiting the Underwater World Langkawi,. this aquarium features abundance types of marine life, including a giant tank housing large marine species such as sharks, stingrays and a tunnel for visitors to walk through and enjoy a spectacular view of the marine creatures. There were also underwater gardens of weeds, sea plants together with exotic fishes and exhibits of fossils and penguins. Due to the mysterious death of hundreds of fishes a few months ago, some tanks were empty. We also waited to see the 3-D movie in underwater world but unfortunately the 3-D system was out of order and only managed to see a short movie.

We went back to the hotel, had lunch and checked in. Some of us decided to go to the Panorama Langkawi Cable Car and boy am I glad to had gone for the cable car ride regardless of feeling tired. While waiting for our turn to go on the gondola, I could see how high it was going up the hill and I told myself…shall I just chicken out! Yup! What further crossed my mind was… oh dear I not even told a proper good bye to my family if any mishap was to happen to me here. But then I told myself...what the hack I have not heard of any news of accidents…of cable cars plunging to the ground and so I joined the fun. What can I say..the views were awesome. Of course, as the gondolas went higher and higher up the steep mountain slope… virgin jungle of the Matcinchang Mountain Forest Reserve, I was getting nervous with my heart beating rapidly… so I became chatty with my colleagues who shared the gondola with me and at the same time enjoying the trees in the lush valleys and ravines.

At the hill top we came to a suspension bridge over the valley and my god it was so breathtaking and I marveled at the fabulous architecture of the suspension bridge. The feeling was one of being truly in cloud 9…reaching greater heights. This to me is the most memorial place of exhilarating fun in this whole trip. Of course we were also so close to the scorching sun and I was all sun burnt by then…but I did not care though but as usual I had to complain…ha..ha!

We had our dinner later out of the hotel and since all of us were tired, we said go night to each other for the next day was going to be another long day.


Day 2

We went island hopping. The sun was already scorching by the time we started our island adventure. We applied sun block lotion but after looking at our faces now… I not think it helped much. Going on island cruises was breathtaking scenery of Langkawi as our speedboats weaved through the watery passageways between the islands. We first went to Tasik Dayang Buting, the largest lake in Langkawi. We had to climb the hills to reach lake and I was already tired my then and was the last to reach the lake. There were so many tourists that day and some of them were taking a dip the lake. Some of us just padded our legs on the lake and then went to sit on some shade. We then went to Pantai Beras Basah for our lunch. Some of us took the opportunity to get ourselves a good dip in the sea to cool us down. The water was clear and refreshing.

Langkawi's is also duty free port so we much be crazy if we had missed to do shopping. So after quickly refreshing from the island hopping we then hopped to the shops to do some brisk shopping of chocolate, liquors and kitchenware among others. I really did not buy much as I already had splashed money during my Lake Toba, Medan trip.

By the time we reached the hotel, we all needed to rest before dinner.

Day 3

After an early breakfast I took my self to enjoy the beach in front of the hotel we were staying. After being in the water for some time, i went into the swimming pool at the hotel were ,most of colleagues and their families were enjoying themselves with splashes and laughter.

We check out of the hotel at noon after having a rushed lunch and head for the jetty. Luckily the ferry was well air conditioned and we made the journey back home before mid night on Christmas Eve…with memories and experiences to cherish.

Days Later.....

Probably I was enjoying myself too much in the sea and due to the heat, I came down with some skin rash on my arms and sores around my mouth. My doctor told me it could be so allergy.

Here are some photos of the outing. Surprised that I have posted them so quickly? This is because my colleague's husband is an avid photographer who provided all the photos. Wish i could have more enthusiastic photographers around me..Ha..Ha

I like to end this post by

Wishing Everyone A Happy New Year and May 2008 Be Filled With Great Laughter, Happiness and Scaling Newer Heights .

Beautiful Sun set



Romantic Moon


Last day at the beach


On the Suspension Bridge


Superb Structure of the Bridge


Breathtaking View of Bridge


Island hopping


I am collecting dead corals


Underwater World


Penguins


Resting at Tasik Dayang Bunting


On speed motor boats



Bathing at Pantai Beras Basah


Beautiful Sandy Beaches


Day 2 Dinner


Day 2 Dinner


Day 2 Dinner


Day 2 Dinner

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

My Brother got married

My brother got married last Thursday, 13 December. My sister in law hails from Kota Kinabalu, Sabah but now works in Petaling Jaya.

It was a joyous celebration as the couple got married according to Hindu rites, early Thursday morning at the Sakti Eswari Temple at Sungai Way, Petaling Jaya. On Saturday, 15 December they hosted a wedding reception at the Hotel Maya, Kuala Lumpur. The couple took their married vows amidst custom and rituals filled with pomp and flair, surrounded by Indian traditional music and religious mantras.

As the Hindu ceremony took place between 8.30am-10am, we had to get ready at the wee hours of the morning at about 4am for the wedding as we also had to travel from our home in Klang to Sungai Way. Although it was a working day, about 300 guests attended the wedding. My grand uncle, grand aunty and their son from Singapore graced the occasion with many other relatives and family members. The guests were also feasted to sumptuous Indian vegetarian dishes.

Both sides of the families are truly happy that these two people finally got married.

For the reception at the hotel, I was the emcee…in a romantic setting with flowers, Indian kuttu villaku and Indian music. The married couple finally revealed how they decided to tied the knot when they were at Mt Annapurna, Nepal.

The 250 guests were treated to a fusion of Chinese and Indian flavours and of course with wine and liquor. Beside the newly wed couple everyone was also in high spirit that night.

Oh I must have impressed people with my emcee skills as I had requests from guests to be emcee for the children’s wedding reception!

As usual will try to post some pictures later…ha…ha!

I end this post with the toast I proposed that night

“May your voyage through married life be filled with abundance of love, good health, prosperity, lots of happiness and be majestic as Mt Annapurna..to Alagappa & Ann”